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# Do you love me?
- URL: https://amemamem.com.br/en/do-you-love-me/
- Published: 2025-05-09T12:26:14.000Z
- Updated: 2026-11-09T01:04:08.000Z
- Description: The sea had already been crossed, the fish caught, and the fire was lit.
- Author: Airton Humber
- Tags: #en, #de-tu-me-amas

## **"Do you love me?": When the Word speaks tenderly to a broken heart**

## **The scene after the dark night**

The sea had already been crossed, the fish caught, and the fire was lit. The risen Christ does not appear in glory, but with bread and fish on the coals. Everything is quietly grand. And it is in this simple, intimate setting that one of the most delicate dialogues in Scripture takes place.

## **Simon, son of John: the call back to the origin**

Jesus does not call him Peter, the name He Himself had given him. He goes back to the root: Simon, son of John. Perhaps not as a reproach, but as one who returns to the beginning, to the point where everything started, before the fall, to restore from the very start.

## **Agape and Phileo: the first love**

Jesus asks with the verb agapao, "do you love me with total, unconditional love, above all others?" Peter answers with the verb phileo, "Lord, you know that I am very fond of you." It is the honesty of someone who has already tried to be strong and failed. Before, he had said: "Even if everyone abandons you, I never will." Now, he no longer dares to compare himself.

## **The second question: the invitation remains**

Jesus insists, but this time without the comparison with the others: "Simon, son of John, do you love me?" It is still agape, but Peter stays with his phileo. The distance between the words reveals the abyss between the divine intention and the human condition. But the dialogue goes on, because love does not demand, it invites.

## **The third time: Jesus comes down to Peter's level**

The third time, Jesus changes the question. He uses phileo: "Simon, son of John, do you love me with this love that you are able to give me?" Peter is grieved, not because Jesus repeated the question, but because he realizes that Jesus changed the verb. It is as if He were saying: "Are you sure, Peter, about this affection you say you feel for me?" The pain is in being deeply known and still deeply loved.

## **Three answers, three commissions**

With each answer, however limited, Jesus responds with a mission: "Take care of my lambs." "Shepherd my sheep." "Take care of my sheep." Imperfect love is accepted, and it is enough to entrust Peter with what is most precious: lives.

## **The language of the Spirit**

Jesus does not impose agape. He accepts phileo. He does not demand perfection to entrust a mission. He reveals Himself as the God who comes down to the level of our sincerity, and there restores us. The language of Jesus is not merely Greek. It is the language of the Spirit. It is the language of the Love that understands, welcomes and transforms.

## **The love that becomes possible**

Peter was not rejected for loving little. He was restored for loving sincerely. And this love, over time, would grow, to the point of giving his own life for the One he had once denied.

## **Conclusion**

Christ is the one who strengthens us, through the Spirit who dwells in us.